Over the years I’ve put a lot of thought, sacrifice, and even money into figuring how to make working from home work. Just yesterday I was telling a friend, “How amazing is it that I get to do what I love [write] while also getting to spend a large portion of my day with my children?”
I’m here when my kids wake up in the morning. I’m the first person they see when they come downstairs. I take them for walks. We homeschool and play board games. I fold their little T-shirts from the dryer and set dinner before them every night. I tuck them in bed.
This doesn’t come without challenges. With a six-year-old and two three-year-olds there is a lot of noise and a lot of mess. It’s sometimes hard to concentrate, and I’ve resorted to hiring outside help.
- I hire a housekeeper to come once a week.
- I hire a babysitter to come many times a week, during the day.
- I use Litfuse Publicity to be my extra hands and feet. They upload my blogs, manage my website, book guests for my radio show, etc.
None of this has happened overnight. I’ve sought out help in small ways, and I’ve built up over time. I’ve taken each step once my income has been able to sustain it. And the truth is knowing that I have others counting on me paying them has helped me be diligent about my work, too. I can’t play around on Facebook or computer games all day. I need money coming in to support those who make it possible for me to do what I do.
I depend on my handy-dandy calendars, too. Digitally I use iCal on my Mac to keep track of where I need to be when. I don’t schedule anything unless I consult this first. I set up blocks when I knew the babysitter’s coming (or when my wonderful husband will have the kids), and then I schedule my work into those slots.
Things don’t always go as planned, but at least I have a plan that propels me in the right direction!
You also may notice:
- Not every slot is full. There is time to homeschool, to cook, to clean, to play outside.
- I schedule in time with friends. That large purple section in the afternoon on Friday was actually a phone call with a friend/fellow writer. We chatted for hours as the kids played. It filled me up!
- I focus on a few important things. My life revolves around my kids, my writing, friends/church, and mentoring teen moms. That’s enough. I say no to a lot of things so I can say yes to the things that God has called me to. The things most important to me.
I also like to use a physical planner, as well, to help keep me on track of where I should be. The Homemaker’s Friend 2015 Daily Planner is a good choice—and now through January 18, you can order one with FREE shipping! This one is nice because it includes:
- Weekly Layout: Two-page spread with entries for each day, along with space for menu planning and a to-do list
- Monthly Calendar: Two-page month view
- Year Calendars: 2015 and 2016 calendars with place for notations
- Shopping List: Perforated shopping list
- Task List and Project & Events Sections: Untitled pages for you to customize for your own duties and ideas
Whenever I start feeling anxious or worried, I go back to Ecclesiastes 4:6, “Better one handful with tranquillity than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind.” Yes, there are many additional ways I can give and serve, but one handful is enough, thank you very much.
How about you? Do you have a calendar that helps you keep track of your life and goals? I’d love to hear about it!
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